“Prepare with me” (GRWM) – The trend is throughout the social medium, especially Instagram, and not only affects it, but ordinary users also often try to get opinions. But who would think the trend could become the reason for the rejection of marriage?
Reddit has taken social media to reveal how he refused a marriage proposal, because the potential bride often published GRWM videos, some of which he described as “border thirst”.
What is the trend?
The GRWM trend is a popular format of social media, especially on Instagram and YouTube. In these videos, the creators are filming while they dress for a day, an event or a special opportunity.
“So I recently got a proposal for marriage. Everything looked good on paper – it is in Delhi, the family looked decent, the conversation also took place.
But one thing really bothered me. It is very active on Instagram, specifically “Prepare with me” (GRWM) – you know, shows in detail every clothing, accessories, make -up, etc. Although I do not mind that people are to some extent active on social media, I could not shake my potential partner for online audience. “
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Redditor also stated that her contributions were stylized to “attract attention”.
“When we look at the comments below them, it is clear that a large piece of order is from people, and honestly, I was worried.
I felt like I wasn’t right with this dynamics in the long run, so I decided to refuse the proposal.
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I’m thinking now – was I wrong here? I am too conservative, or was it fair to decide that it is not the type of partner I see with? “He continued to read the post.
Contribution He evoked a rush of answers from social media users, with several comments in the comment section.
Here’s how people reacted:
One user asked, “We don’t have preferences?”
Another said, “I think that if it publishes thirsty traps, then it should ideally cause you uncomfortable because it suggests that the other person is searched and is ready to move the boundaries for opinions-it could be considered a red flag.
The point is that there is no right or bad, it depends on what it suits you. If you force her to stop broadcasting reels after marriage, it’s also bad, because then you would control, so it’s better to find someone with similar borders and opinions. ”
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The third user said, “Rejection of someone for any reason would clearly cause you not to mean someone who” does not give freedom to be who I want to be. “
On the other hand, if you tried to control her behavior after you got married, then you would be such a kind of person. ”
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