28 -year -old software engineer in a recent post on social media suggested that after discovering the monthly spending of his wife felt betrayal. With regard to the termination of this marriage and continuing divorce, he decided to make this decision two months after the marriage agreed.
The headline for the Reddit post states: ” Stunned from responsibility and finance revealed that he felt disappointed, discovered his wife’s monthly contribution to her parents.
He described anxiety faced by the unequal distribution of responsibility, wrote: “One of my non -regots in search of a partner was that she should earn at least 70%. My justification is that if she earned significantly, then she could contribute to the financial queue.”
The worrying long -term financial commitment of the wife said, “I recently found out £75k in hand reception, gives £40k every month to your parents. EMI pays for the house they recently built. ”
He explained that his wife had hidden her expenditure before marriage and said, “Now I feel completely betrayed. From the 1st day of this marriage, I dealt with about 70% of the total workload. It is unsustainable for me.”
But whenever he faced his wife, he faced emotional manipulation. “I discussed her several times, but every time she plays an emotional card and somehow I became a villain to question her,” added the software engineer.
The reaction of social media
A number of reactions have been poured to social media when Netizens provided its proposals for solving the situation.
The user wrote: “Ask her if he can name the house in his name !! He can also pay part of the cost of the house from the remaining savings. Ask if it is okay to do the same for your parents !!”
Another user noted: “If he is the only child and inherits the house, then you are YTK, because paying 40,000 a month is basically as an investment in real estate, because it eventually comes real estate.
The third comment read: “Seriously, do you want to end the marriage only because the newly built home pays for their parents, from her salary? Was it a commitment she had before or after marriage, but seriously considering not doing the same for your parents? Is their only child?”
The fourth user said, “Do you want a working wife or do you want someone to divide the expenses? Because it doesn’t seem to need a wife. The way you behave. Do you want to say that you will not take any long -term commitment to your parents?
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