Former US President Barack Obama recently revealed that his decision to oppose incumbent President Donald Trump caused “real tension” at home, particularly with his wife and former First Lady Michelle Obama.
In an interview with The New Yorker, the former president noted that Trump’s presidency has withdrawn him from political engagements more than he expected. He went on to admit that his assumption that institutional safeguards such as the Constitution and presidential norms, which are long-standing, would constrain Trump’s actions, was incorrect.
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Obama reveals how Trump’s policies have affected his personal life
During Trump’s first presidency, Obama revealed that policies such as restrictions on Muslims entering the United States and expanding immigration forced him to respond publicly, and the pressure extended far beyond politics and into his personal life.
Recalling how Michelle Obama wanted the former president to retire from politics and focus on his life after the presidency, he said, “She wants to see her husband loosen up and spend more time with her, enjoy what’s left of our lives. It creates real tension in our household and it frustrates her.”
As Trump began to implement the Muslim ban and family separation policy in the US, some of Obama’s most loyal voters seemed to become frustrated with his luxury vacation. In February 2017, British business magnate Richard Branson shared pictures of Obama learning to kitesurf. After the pictures went viral, comedian John Oliver said: “Just mute the kitesurfing pictures. I’m glad they’re having a good time. America is on fire.” A few months later, the Obamas were photographed in Tahiti on David Geffen’s yacht with Springsteen, Winfrey and Tom Hanks.
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Loud opposition to Trump brought me back into public life: Obama
While it is not common for former US presidents to openly criticize their successors, Obama revealed that he initially followed this convention. However, later, when he became more vocal about Trump’s policies, he acknowledged that his opposition to the sitting US president brought him back into public life “more than I would have liked”.
This was in stark contrast to what Obama said in his last press conference as US President. “I want to be quiet for a while and not be heard talking so much,” he said, adding that he would only speak at “certain times when I think our core values may be at stake.”
Since Trump’s second term began last January, Obama has moved further from the norm of not criticizing his successor and has instead become one of Trump’s most prominent critics. He has also become active in promoting Democratic priorities, including publicly supporting redistricting efforts in Virginia to his large following.
Earlier in April, Obama urged voters in Virginia to support the referendum during a special election held on April 21.
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Obama chooses direct criticism
At the same time, Obama has been judicious in how he approaches criticism. Despite frequent hints from Trump, he has largely avoided a direct back-and-forth. Still, he decided to speak out after Trump circulated a video widely condemned as racist toward him and Obama. Reflecting on the incident, Obama noted that some people who once valued those standards seem to have a waning sense of decency and respect for public office.
Meanwhile, Michelle Obama has voiced her own disapproval of the Trump administration in public forums, including podcasts and media appearances where she has openly shared her frustrations.
Obama also acknowledged the personal toll political life took on his family. In 2025, he revealed that he had been working on repairing his relationship with Michelle after her absence from major public events such as Jimmy Carter’s funeral and Trump’s inauguration.
